Toilet training for adults

Learning to Poo Again

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Where to find your clinician's plan

Your results letter or consultation summary names the pathway letters your clinician recommended. Ask your clinic for the printed handout for each letter. If you're not sure which applies, ask your clinic rather than choosing from your symptoms.

  • Pathway A: helping your tummy push effectively
  • Pathway B: learning to relax the outlet
  • Pathway C: learning to recognise rectal filling
  • Pathway D: managing urgency and heightened rectal sensation

If you might leak, or the urge is building and you need to go, go to the toilet now.

When to get help

Emergency: call triple zero (000) or go to an emergency department straight away for severe tummy pain; tummy pain when you can't pass stool or wind, especially with vomiting or a swollen tummy; black, tarry stools or a lot of blood; or any bleeding with feeling light-headed or weak.

See your doctor soon for a small amount of bright red blood, unexplained weight loss, a lasting change in your usual bowel habit, milder tummy pain that keeps coming back or is getting worse, new or worsening urgency or leakage, or signs of an inflammatory bowel disease flare.

Toilet training for adults

Learning to Poo Again

Understand your anorectal test results and practise the bowel-emptying or urgency skills your clinician recommended.

  1. 1FEELwhen stool is ready. This comes first.
  2. 2PUSHgently from your tummy…
  3. 3OPEN…while your bottom relaxes, at the same time.

Tummy pushes. Bottom opens.

The four learning pathways

Anyone can watch and learn. The exercises in each pathway are for people whose clinician has recommended it after testing, because symptoms alone can't show which muscles or nerves are involved. More than one pathway can apply. Understanding your test results

Get it out, or hold it in?

About 5 minutes

Practise at home

A guided session for the pathway your clinician recommended, with optional spoken coaching.

About 3 minutes

Watch the explainer

The whole story in one go, with subtitles and optional narration.

Emergency: call triple zero (000) or go to an emergency department straight away for severe tummy pain; tummy pain when you can't pass stool or wind, especially with vomiting or a swollen tummy; black, tarry stools or a lot of blood; or any bleeding with feeling light-headed or weak.

See your doctor soon for a small amount of bright red blood, unexplained weight loss, a lasting change in your usual bowel habit, new symptoms after age 50, milder tummy pain that keeps coming back or is getting worse, new or worsening urgency or leakage, or signs of an inflammatory bowel disease flare.

If you have severe rectal pain, have had recent surgery, or have other significant health problems, ask your clinician for advice that suits you.

About this resource

Learning to Poo Again supports, but does not replace, care from your clinician and biofeedback with a trained therapist. Home practice is not the same as instrumented biofeedback, which uses sensors to show you what your muscles are doing. The science behind this programme

Privacy: this page never asks for your name, results or other identifying information, and sends nothing you choose to anyone. It remembers your Voice setting in your own browser, and the pathway letters you select if you choose to remember them on this device; you can change or clear them on the My programme page. Your goal is saved only if you tick "Remember my goal". Symptom and progress choices are not saved. Fonts load from Google Fonts. Spoken coaching uses your device's voice; some online voices are processed by your browser's provider. Recorded audio, if your clinic adds it, loads from this website.