Toilet training for adults
Learning to Poo Again
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Where to find your clinician's plan
Your results letter or consultation summary names the pathway letters your clinician recommended. Ask your clinic for the printed handout for each letter. If you're not sure which applies, ask your clinic rather than choosing from your symptoms.
- Pathway A: helping your tummy push effectively
- Pathway B: learning to relax the outlet
- Pathway C: learning to recognise rectal filling
- Pathway D: managing urgency and heightened rectal sensation
If you might leak, or the urge is building and you need to go, go to the toilet now.
When to get help
Emergency: call triple zero (000) or go to an emergency department straight away for severe tummy pain; tummy pain when you can't pass stool or wind, especially with vomiting or a swollen tummy; black, tarry stools or a lot of blood; or any bleeding with feeling light-headed or weak.
See your doctor soon for a small amount of bright red blood, unexplained weight loss, a lasting change in your usual bowel habit, milder tummy pain that keeps coming back or is getting worse, new or worsening urgency or leakage, or signs of an inflammatory bowel disease flare.
Toilet training for adults
Learning to Poo Again
Understand your anorectal test results and practise the bowel-emptying or urgency skills your clinician recommended.
- 1FEELwhen stool is ready. This comes first.
- 2PUSHgently from your tummy…
- 3OPEN…while your bottom relaxes, at the same time.
Tummy pushes. Bottom opens.
The four learning pathways
Anyone can watch and learn. The exercises in each pathway are for people whose clinician has recommended it after testing, because symptoms alone can't show which muscles or nerves are involved. More than one pathway can apply. Understanding your test results
Get it out, or hold it in?
About 5 minutes
Practise at home
A guided session for the pathway your clinician recommended, with optional spoken coaching.
About 3 minutes
Watch the explainer
The whole story in one go, with subtitles and optional narration.
Emergency: call triple zero (000) or go to an emergency department straight away for severe tummy pain; tummy pain when you can't pass stool or wind, especially with vomiting or a swollen tummy; black, tarry stools or a lot of blood; or any bleeding with feeling light-headed or weak.
See your doctor soon for a small amount of bright red blood, unexplained weight loss, a lasting change in your usual bowel habit, new symptoms after age 50, milder tummy pain that keeps coming back or is getting worse, new or worsening urgency or leakage, or signs of an inflammatory bowel disease flare.
If you have severe rectal pain, have had recent surgery, or have other significant health problems, ask your clinician for advice that suits you.
About this resource
Learning to Poo Again supports, but does not replace, care from your clinician and biofeedback with a trained therapist. Home practice is not the same as instrumented biofeedback, which uses sensors to show you what your muscles are doing. The science behind this programme
Privacy: this page never asks for your name, results or other identifying information, and sends nothing you choose to anyone. It remembers your Voice setting in your own browser, and the pathway letters you select if you choose to remember them on this device; you can change or clear them on the My programme page. Your goal is saved only if you tick "Remember my goal". Symptom and progress choices are not saved. Fonts load from Google Fonts. Spoken coaching uses your device's voice; some online voices are processed by your browser's provider. Recorded audio, if your clinic adds it, loads from this website.
If you might leak, or the urge is building and you need to go, go to the toilet now.
"When I need to go, I need to go now. And I might not make it." If that's you now, go first. Come back when you're calm.
The main idea
Side by side with normal
Guided practice
Practise at home
No programme recorded yet
Guided practice follows the pathways your clinician recommended. Open your programme and select the letters from your results letter or consultation summary. You can learn about every pathway without doing this.
Not sure which applies? Ask your clinic.
Practise the pathway your clinician recommended. If you chose more than one on My programme, "My programme" combines them. Sessions are samples, usually 4 to 8 minutes; your clinician may change the amounts. Optional exercises are marked.
Judge an exercise by whether emptying is becoming easier, not by how many repetitions you completed. The aim is for this to become automatic again, not to control every bowel movement.
A realistic daily plan
| When | What |
|---|---|
| Morning | Relax and breathe, about 5 minutes. |
| 15–30 min after breakfast | Sit on the toilet in a good position, for up to 5 minutes, even if the urge is faint. Push gently and let your bottom open. |
| Afternoon or evening | One guided session from this page, lying or sitting. It doesn't need to be on the toilet. |
| Any time you feel an urge | Go promptly. Putting it off lets stool dry out. |
Your clinician may adjust this plan. Most people practise most days for several weeks; take your questions to your biofeedback sessions. The amounts here are practical starting points, not proven doses.
The 5-minute rule
If nothing has happened after about 5 minutes on the toilet, get up and try again later. Long sits and hard straining make the muscles work against you and can cause haemorrhoids and fissures.
Please avoid
- Holding your breath and straining hard.
- Squeezing or strengthening (Kegel) programs, unless your clinician advises them. They can help when leakage or a weak sphincter is also a problem, but they don't train emptying.
- Holding on when you might leak.
- Inserting a balloon or any device yourself. Sensory retraining is done only in clinic.
Explainer · about 3 minutes
How bowel emptying works, and what can go wrong
Chapters
Full transcript
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After your anorectal testing
Your recommended programme
Your tests help us understand how the muscles and nerves around your bottom are working. Follow the exercises recommended by your clinician.
Which pathways did your clinician recommend?
Your results letter or consultation summary lists one or more pathways, A to D. Select the same ones here. You don't need to understand pressures, sensation thresholds or balloon times.
This is your own record of your clinician's advice. Not sure? Ask your clinic rather than choosing from your symptoms.
On: this browser keeps them, and any open tabs use the same plan. Off: they're kept in this tab only, until you close it. Choose Off on a shared device.
How will I know if I'm improving?
The aim is easier, more comfortable and more effective bowel emptying, not simply more frequent bowel movements.
Success isn't only…
- having a bowel movement every day
- reaching a particular pressure on a test
- every bowel movement feeling perfectly complete
- a test result becoming normal
You may notice…
- less time on the toilet, and less straining
- fewer return visits within minutes
- less need to support the area or use your fingers
- easier, more satisfying bowel movements
- feeling less unfinished afterwards
- more confidence recognising the urge
- less urgency, or fewer accidents
- less discomfort and worry, and less disruption to work, family and social life
- more confidence with the skills you're learning
For example: going from 45 minutes and four trips to the toilet, to one or two short, comfortable visits, is real progress even if you open your bowels just as often. How you feel about emptying is a meaningful result. It doesn't replace tests when your clinician needs them.
My goal (optional)
Choose one goal to look back on at your next visit.
Only saved if you tick the box, and only in this browser.
Compared with when you started, what has changed?
Optional, for your next visit. Nothing here is saved or sent.
What if I'm not improving?
Learning to coordinate these muscles can take practice and correction. Some people improve a lot, some partly, and some need a different treatment. Not improving doesn't mean you have failed.
It can mean:
- the exercise target needs changing
- the technique needs supervised correction
- stool consistency still needs attention
- slow movement through the bowel (slow transit)
- a structural emptying problem
- a change in rectal sensation
- pain or inflammation
- other medical factors
Ask for a review if the exercises are painful, confusing, not helping after several weeks, or making things worse. The answer isn't always more exercises.
Learn
Understanding your symptoms
Learn why emptying can be difficult, why you may not feel finished, or why the urge can be so sudden.
Symptoms show that emptying is difficult and how much it affects you. They can't tell which muscles or nerves are involved, and several problems often overlap. So this page doesn't choose your exercises: your clinician does that from your tests. Nothing you select here is saved or sent.
Which of these sound like you?
Had your tests?
Your clinician uses your test results, not a symptom list, to recommend a pathway.
Optional reading
Understanding your test results
Your clinician uses three different ideas. It helps to keep them separate.
| Idea | What it means | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Diagnosis | The name of the condition, based on your symptoms and tests. | Dyssynergic defecation; rectal hyposensitivity; rectal hypersensitivity; urgency after proctitis. |
| Mechanism | What is making emptying difficult in your body. | The push is weak; the bottom tightens; the signal is too quiet or too loud; the rectum stretches less. |
| Training target | What you practise to help. | Belly breathing; push and open together; a regular routine. |
The animations on this site show mechanisms and training targets. They cannot tell you your diagnosis. Please don't use them to diagnose yourself.
Why tests, not symptoms, guide your exercises
Feeling incomplete, straining, needing to change position or use your fingers are common with emptying disorders, but they also happen with other kinds of constipation. Symptoms can't reliably tell apart a weak push, an outlet that tightens, reduced or heightened rectal sensation, slow transit or a structural problem, and these often overlap. Your clinician combines your history, examination and tests to choose your pathway.
Anorectal manometry
A thin, soft tube measures pressures in your rectum and back passage at rest, when you squeeze and when you push. It shows how well pushing and relaxing are coordinated, how strong the muscles are, how you feel filling, and a normal reflex of the back passage.
Balloon expulsion test
You try to pass a small water-filled balloon in private. It shows how easily you can empty.
Defecography
Imaging taken while you empty. It can show structural or movement problems that other tests miss, such as a rectocele (a bulge of the rectum, often into the vagina) or intussusception (the rectal lining folding in on itself). Manometry alone can't show these.
Rectal sensation testing
A small balloon in the rectum is filled gently, usually during manometry. You say when you first feel it, when you want to go, and the most you can comfortably tolerate.
What is biofeedback, and why can it help?
The muscles and sensations involved in emptying are hidden: you can't see whether your bottom is relaxing or tightening. Specialist biofeedback makes them visible, as pressures, muscle activity or rectal filling on a screen, so you and your therapist can see what is happening.
It can show whether you are:
- making an effective push
- relaxing the outlet when trying to empty
- tightening when you mean to relax
- noticing rectal filling at the right time
Learning to coordinate these muscles is a little like learning a new movement. Feedback helps you understand what is happening and practise the right skill.
The equipment provides feedback. The therapist helps you understand it and learn the right skill.
This website illustrates the principles, but it can't measure what your muscles are doing. Its animations are not biofeedback.
From test to training: one movement at a time
Testing shows what to work on. A treatment visit is where you learn to change it. A simplified example:
- Watch. You push while your therapist watches the screen. Here, the pushing (rectal) pressure barely rises.
- Adjust one thing. Your therapist suggests one change, for example: "Push a little more firmly from your tummy, and keep your back passage soft."
- See the change. On the next try, you both see the pushing pressure rise while the outlet pressure settles.
Real readings, targets and the order of steps depend on your test results and your therapist.
Tests and equipment you may come across
- Anorectal manometry: measures pressures, coordination, sensation and a normal reflex.
- Balloon expulsion test: sitting on a toilet in private, you try to pass a small balloon from the back passage, following your clinic's protocol. The result is interpreted together with your history and your other tests.
- EMG (surface electrodes): shows muscle activity around the back passage; sometimes used during biofeedback.
- Pressure-based biofeedback: a soft probe shows pressures as you push and relax.
- Rectal sensation testing: gentle balloon filling to see when you feel it.
- Defecography: imaging while you empty, to show structure and movement.
For clinicians: Rome V (2026) anorectal criteria in brief
F3 Dyssynergic defecation
Rome V lists dyssynergic defecation separately and removes the broader Rome IV category of functional defecation disorders. It requires symptoms of difficult evacuation (for example straining or digital manoeuvres) with at least a quarter of bowel movements, criteria fulfilled for the last 3 months with symptom onset at least 6 months before diagnosis, plus at least one qualifying abnormal evacuation finding on anorectal manometry, balloon expulsion testing or defecography, judged against appropriate norms. Rome IV required two. Rome V gives the diagnostic criteria; the London Classification describes how manometric coordination is interpreted together with an evacuation test. EMG is no longer included, and manometric diagnosis relies on more specific patterns of abnormal evacuation. Inadequate propulsion is no longer kept as a separate formal subtype; on this site, "weak push" and "the outlet tightens" are training targets, not diagnoses.
A dyssynergic manometric pattern on its own is not invariably pathological: it is common in asymptomatic people and is influenced by posture and test conditions. Interpret it alongside symptoms and the balloon expulsion test. Manometry remains essential for sphincter pressures, rectoanal coordination, rectal sensation and the rectoanal inhibitory reflex; the balloon expulsion test adds functional information about evacuation, and defecography can show structural or dynamic abnormalities.
Interpreting manometry: the London Classification
The London Classification (IAPWG, 2020) describes manometric findings in standardised terms and places them in a hierarchy, and it stresses that evacuation findings on manometry should be interpreted together with the balloon expulsion test. Rome V F3 accepts one abnormal qualifying test, but that does not remove the need for clinical interpretation or resolve the known ambiguities of manometry. An isolated negative rectoanal pressure gradient is common in healthy people and is not on its own definitive evidence of clinically significant dyssynergia. Inadequate propulsion is no longer a separate Rome V subclass, but it remains a valid therapeutic target. Manometry does not identify rectocele, intussusception or other structural disorders; examination and defecography are needed.
F4 Anorectal sensory dysfunction
F4a rectal hyposensitivity and F4b rectal hypersensitivity require compatible anorectal symptoms and objectively abnormal rectal sensory thresholds on rectal distension; neither is diagnosed from the presence or absence of urgency alone. Both require the qualifying symptom criteria (faecal incontinence or dyssynergic defecation symptoms, as specified in Rome V). F4a: at least two abnormally high sensory thresholds; structural disease and metabolic abnormalities excluded. F4b: at least one qualifying abnormally low threshold; first or constant sensation does not count as a qualifying threshold; prior rectal excision and structural disease excluded. Check exact reference limits and method caveats against the Rome V anorectal paper and laboratory-specific norms.
Urgency alone does not establish F4b. Reduced rectal compliance or capacity (for example after proctitis) lowers volume-based thresholds mechanically, without primary afferent hypersensitivity.
Thresholds depend on method: balloon volume versus barostat pressure, balloon type and inflation protocol. Rectal compliance matters: a capacious, highly compliant rectum can raise volume-based thresholds without primary afferent dysfunction, and a stiff rectum can lower them. Pressure-based (barostat) testing partly corrects for this. Use laboratory-specific normal values.
For patients and clinicians
The science behind this programme
This is an educational resource built on current evidence. Here is what is well established, what is reasonable educational practice, and what is still uncertain.
Established
Well supported
- Biofeedback with a trained therapist improves outcomes for many people with dyssynergic defecation.
- Anorectal tests give clinically useful information.
- Supervised rectal sensory training can improve sensation in selected people.
- Biofeedback also has supportive evidence for selected people with faecal incontinence.
- Instrument-assisted biofeedback using a pressure-sensor device at home, after clinic training, worked about as well as office biofeedback in one randomised trial.
Reasonable practice
Sensible, low risk
- Anatomical pictures, simple explanations and short coaching cues.
- Home breathing, coordination practice and comfortable toilet positioning.
- Practising at home what you learn in biofeedback.
- Exercises on this site are based on biofeedback techniques, physiological reasoning or specialist practice, and say which. They have not been tested as stand-alone treatments.
Evidence gaps
Not yet known
- Whether particular images, cues or metaphors, including "like a flower", improve outcomes on their own.
- The best number, length and timing of home exercises. The amounts here are starting points, not proven doses.
- Whether home relaxation can change rectal hypersensitivity on its own.
- Whether grouping people by mechanism works better than integrated biofeedback.
- How well urgency training works for urgency that continues after inflammation has healed.
- Whether written or animated home education alone reproduces results from instrument-assisted trials.
Evidence summary
| Advice on this site | Main source | Certainty and caveats |
|---|---|---|
| Pathways are chosen from testing, not symptoms | Brandler & Camilleri 2020 (systematic review); Parker et al. 2018 | Symptoms have limited ability to identify rectal evacuation disorders or their mechanism; examination and tests add information. |
| Biofeedback for dyssynergic defecation | ACG 2021; ANMS–ESNM 2015 | Strongest treatment evidence, for instrument-assisted biofeedback in objectively evaluated patients. Home practice reinforces it but is not equivalent. |
| Home-based biofeedback | Rao et al. 2018, Lancet Gastroenterol Hepatol (randomised, n=100) | Home training with a pressure-sensor device after a clinic session was comparable to office biofeedback (post-hoc responders 34/50, 68% vs 35/50, 70%; paper). It was instrumented, so it doesn't show that uninstrumented exercises like those here are equally effective. |
| Diagnosis needs symptoms plus at least one abnormal evacuation test | Rome V 2026 | Change from Rome IV (two tests). Isolated manometric patterns need interpreting in context. |
| Rectal hypo- and hypersensitivity need symptoms plus abnormal sensory thresholds | Rome V 2026 (F4a, F4b) | Thresholds depend on testing method and rectal compliance. |
| Sensory adaptation training for rectal hypersensitivity | Randomised trial, IBS with constipation, n=49 (2021) | Improved sensory thresholds more than escitalopram (69% vs 17% responders); pain outcome not significantly different. Small, supervised in clinic. Inflammatory bowel disease was excluded, so it says nothing about urgency after proctitis; not evidence for home balloon distension. |
| Sensory retraining for rectal hyposensitivity | Randomised trial of two supervised techniques (2022) | Supporting randomised evidence, but for supervised, instrument-assisted training. Not a home exercise. |
| Footstool and forward lean | Physiological studies of hip flexion; randomised trial in undifferentiated constipation (2023); defecatory disorders (2024) | A footstool changed posture without improving simulated evacuation in undifferentiated constipation; it improved balloon expulsion in some patients with defecatory disorders. Offered as positions to try; no universal angle. Low risk. |
| Home breathing and push-and-open practice | Derived from biofeedback protocols | Reasonable practice; not independently validated. Doses are pragmatic. |
| Urgency control: stop, breathe, brief gentle squeezes, safe delays | Behavioural and pelvic floor physiotherapy practice for urgency and faecal incontinence | Reasonable practice. Biofeedback evidence is strongest for dyssynergic defecation, supportive for selected faecal incontinence, and much less direct for isolated urgency after inflammation. Delays are not for people with significant leakage or diarrhoea. |
| Urgency after healed proctitis | Sanahuja Martínez et al., Aliment Pharmacol Ther 2026 (prospective, 36 UC patients, 10 healthy volunteers); supporting study in recurrent UC (2024) | Barostat abnormalities in sensation, compliance and capacity with inflammation; some persisted after treatment, including in patients reaching histological remission. Small observational studies: they cannot show that home urgency training treats the underlying dysfunction. Exclude active inflammation, stool-consistency problems and structural change first. Exercises do not reverse fibrosis or restore structural compliance. |
| Faecal incontinence: dietary and medical management first; biofeedback may be considered | ASCRS Clinical Practice Guideline (2023) | First-line dietary and medical management is a strong recommendation on low-quality evidence; biofeedback is conditional, low quality. Behavioural urgency steps are indirect evidence. |
| Test for and treat defecatory disorders before calling constipation refractory | Staller et al., AGA Clinical Practice Update on refractory constipation (2026) | Expert practice update. Advises anorectal testing and biofeedback where indicated before labelling patients refractory, and objective transit testing before surgery. |
| Progress judged by easier, more comfortable emptying | Patient-reported outcome principles | The site's progress reflection is informal and not validated. Validated measures exist for clinic use (below). |
| Avoid prolonged straining; get up after about 5 minutes | Expert consensus | Low certainty, low risk. |
For clinicians: measuring meaningful improvement
Validated patient-reported measures include PAC-SYM (constipation symptoms), PAC-QOL (constipation-related quality of life), obstructed defecation scores such as the Altomare ODS score, the St Mark's (Vaizey) incontinence score, and a patient global impression of improvement. The goal and "what has changed?" reflection on this site are informal prompts for conversation, not a validated instrument or score.
References
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- Rome Foundation. Rome V diagnostic criteria. theromefoundation.org
- Rao SSC, et al. Sensory adaptation training or escitalopram for IBS with constipation and rectal hypersensitivity: a randomized controlled trial. Clin Transl Gastroenterol 2021;12:e00381. doi:10.14309/ctg.0000000000000381. PubMed
- Sanahuja Martínez, et al. Impact of inflammatory activity on anorectal function in patients with ulcerative colitis: a prospective study. Aliment Pharmacol Ther 2026;64(8):1135–1148. doi:10.1111/apt.70855. PMID 42458231. PubMed
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- Rao SSC, et al. Barostat- or syringe-assisted sensory biofeedback training for constipation with rectal hyposensitivity: a randomized controlled trial. Neurogastroenterol Motil 2022;34:e14226. PMID 34431186. PubMed
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- Parker CH, Tomlinson G, Correia A, Liu LWC. The use of standardized questions in identifying patients with dyssynergic defecation. J Can Assoc Gastroenterol 2018;1:60–66.
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